Princess, please I beg you by the mercies of God not to ever insist on learning from your own experience when it comes to sexual matters. Has it ever occurred to you that those giving you godly advises and counseling have nothing to lose when you get your fingers burnt as a result of stubbornness and disobedience.
They can only encourage you and pray with you. Their own lives continue without delay. You are always the one dealing with the hurt, pains, disappointment and all, while some never survived it.
Be warned, be wise.
WALLs. 👍 OmolaraPMH